8 Survival Tips

Here is a list of 'Survival Tips' from partners of men with postnatal depression:

  • Tip #1: Accept help from everyone. This can include home help, food in the freezer, childcare and gardening.

  • Tip #2: Be prepared that some people close to you and your partner will not understand the severity of your problems.

  • Tip #3: Stay in close contact with friends and family. Make sure you have someone to talk to about your problems.

  • Tip #4: Recognize the efforts you are making for your family. It's possible you may feel frustrated with how things have turned out but try not to express anger or resentment to your partner. No one is to blame.

  • Tip #5: Stay active. Physical activity can get you out and around people.

  • Tip #6: Make sure that you and your partner get out of the house on a regular basis –with or without the children. Try to be positive in front of your partner even if your confidence in what the future holds is wavering.

  • Tip #7: Remember that your partner may not mean all that he says when he is upset or frustrated - it is symptomatic of his illness.

  • Tip #8: Reassure your partner that he will get better, as he needs all the positive reinforcement he can get.