Acts of Kindness for Your Partner

As life changing as this experience is for you, you need to understand that like you, your partner may need time out from home and baby. The support you offer him at this crucial time will help to get your lives back on track. Be patient and encouraging. Give your partner emotional support (listen) and ask how he is feeling.

Some little acts of kindness you can do to support your partner are:

  • Think about what would make your partner feel good (e.g., Make him a coffee)

  • Give him an opportunity to have some time for himself to exercise or just chill out

  • Prepare a special meal

  • Give him a hug and tell him he is doing a great job

  • Buy him a gift

  • Send him an upbeat, loving email message

  • Don't take it to heart when he is irritable and snappy.

  • Sit together with the baby. Make it 'family time'.

  • Share your feelings openly with him so the two of you can work through the challenges together.

By offering your commitment and support, you can make a big difference in speeding his recovery from his depression. It may surprise you just how meaningful some of these little acts will be to your partner!