Communicate More Effectively

The ability to communicate with your partner is essential for the recovery process. It is important to encourage communication about feelings so your relationship can be rebuilt, maintained and strengthened.

A useful start is to:

  • Accept each other's feelings

  • Share your experiences

  • Listen without interruption or judgment (it's okay not to have all of the answers all of the time)

  • Understand that it will take time to adjust

  • Ask what sort of help your partner needs most from you

  • Share what sorts of things you need from him

  • Accept help when it is offered to ease the pressure on both of you

  • Notice something that your partner has done that you like, and let them know about it