Who Nurtures You?

With all of the care that you are giving to your partner and your baby, don't forget about yourself. You have a need to be looked after, too. You probably get less nurturing from your partner. Now that he is struggling to keep his mood in balance, you may feel very alone and unsupported. However, at times your partner may also feel left out.

  • Take some me off housework or other non-urgent tasks in order to spend some quality me with your partner.

  • Your own family may also offer the backup you need at this me if your partner is unable to provide it. Friends can also be supportive if you make them aware.

  • Use whatever supports are there for you or take some me to figure out new ways to improve or enlarge your network of support. Becoming a parent also opens up opportunities to make new support contacts. Think about whether you have a network of other parents with new babies to share your experience with or ask advice from.