Getting to Know Each Other

Building a relationship with your baby can be a deeply rewarding experience. You spend time with your baby in a different way than your partner does, and your baby will learn crucially important things about love relationships through the emotional connection with you both.

As your partner starts to recover, here is a list of nurturing activities you can both share with your baby:

  • Spend some time together just watching your baby. Wonder how they feel and try to communicate their needs to you. Observe their behaviour and how they interact with you.

  • Play with and talk to (laugh with) your baby. Play increases the bond and attachment you both share. Even very little babies can imitate your facial expressions and watch you as you sing to them or show them things.

  • Notice what your baby likes –for example, looking at the trees, being held securely, playing peek-a-boo!

  • Be involved together in your baby's life: settling to sleep, walking around with them if they are unsettled or cuddling them on the couch together while you watch TV.

  • Use everyday opportunities to have a play session e.g. when changing, bathing and dressing your baby.